Celibacy – The Forgotten Virtue

Absorbing all that politicians have been considering during the last few months has confirmed my position as “in the world, but not of it” completely.  This, in turn, has prompted more exploration of others with such an attitude.

Reading about the Amish principle of courtship which is never even slightly physical (let alone sexual) reveals a refreshing and inspirational concept.  It is Spring Cleaning.

Ponder, for a few minutes, your adult relationships.  How deep and meaningful would they be without physical contact – now and prospectively for years?  To assist in the analytical process, consider a few questions.

How well do you really know Person X?

What do you know about him/her?

What do you like about him/her?

What would you like to know?

How essential is your relationship?

Why does your relationship exist?

How healthy is your relationship?

How interesting is your relationship?

Is your relationship worth further investment of time, energy and emotion or would it be wiser to abandon it?

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